Discreet chat, zero traces

The discreet chat built for married adults or those in relationships looking for an affair without leaving traces. Native incognito mode: no history kept, location blurred to city, silent notifications, neutral icon. You pick who to contact, never the other way round — and you close the tab when you want it all to vanish.

Why this discreet chat delivers

Native incognito

No history kept between sessions. Tab closed = conversation wiped from the device. Even someone reopening the browser would find nothing to reconstruct.

Location blurred

We never pass on your GPS position or your neighbourhood. City level maximum, blurring done server-side — nobody, not even a curious member, can guess where you live.

Silent notifications

No sound, no pop-up on the lock screen, neutral app icon. Even with your phone on the table, nothing gives your browsing away to the person next to you.

No sign-up to browse

Explore the list without creating an account. Disposable username to start a chat, and you decide who to talk to. No form, no email confirmation.

How it works

1. Switch on the mask

One tap on the Venetian mask icon: a random username generates, history goes OFF, location narrows to city. Three seconds, all set.

2. Browse and choose

See who's online around you without any match being pushed at you. Manually pick the person who interests you — the conversation only starts on your initiative.

3. Close and forget

When you close the tab, the conversation disappears from the device. Nothing to delete from history, nothing to clear from cookies — ephemeral, by default.

Frequently asked questions

Can my partner see the history on the browser?

No. History is off by default and the conversation wipes from the device the moment you close the tab. If someone reopens the same browser, there's nothing to see: no URL kept in the chat history, no cookie reveals your browsing.

Is my exact location visible to other members?

Never. Precise position isn't transmitted — no GPS, no neighbourhood, no street. Blurring is done server-side at city level only, so even someone inspecting network requests wouldn't receive usable coordinates.

Do I have to sign up to use discreet mode?

To browse the list, no: you see who's online and can start a conversation with a disposable username, no email or number. A basic account is only useful if you want to save favourites or find the same person later.

Do notifications appear on the lock screen?

No. In discreet mode, all notifications are silent and the app icon stays neutral. No message preview, no vibration, no banner on the lock screen — you choose when to check.

Are screenshots blocked or flagged?

We detect the screenshot attempt server-side and the other person is alerted in real time. Total blocking depends on the OS and is never guaranteed, but at least you know immediately if someone has captured part of the exchange.

Difference between discreet chat and the browser's private browsing?

Private browsing only cleans up locally, on your device. Discreet chat adds server-side protections: blurred location, disposable username, silent notifications, screenshot detection. Private browsing is the base, discreet mode is the layer on top.

Can I permanently delete my disposable username?

Yes. Each username is randomly generated and you can regenerate it in one tap — every time a totally new identity. Nothing links the old usernames to the new ones, not even server-side, because no mapping is kept.

Does discreet mode work for video chat too?

Yes, the same principles apply: no recording, no saving, blurred location, silent notifications. The video is only seen live by both people, no frame is stored on our side.

Step in without leaving traces

Disposable username, history off, location blurred. You choose who to contact and disappear whenever you like — in one tap.

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obuny — online community for consenting adults

obuny is an adult community and chat platform for couples and singles. Encrypted private messaging, public rooms, anonymous Q&A. Free, beta. Available in French, Hebrew, English, German, Spanish, Italian, Dutch, Portuguese, Russian.