obuny is the online community for consenting adults couples, men, women who want to meet, talk and explore their sexuality freely. Alone, as a couple, or in a group.
Safety & discretion
End-to-end encrypted private chat, blurred photos by default, human moderation team. You decide who sees what — your data, your rules, your pace.
Questions without judgment
Ask your questions about sexuality, read testimonials, vote on the best answers. Like Reddit, but between adults.
Chat & community
Encrypted private messages, public themed rooms, playful mini-games. Break the ice at your own pace.
Events & meetups
Private parties, partner clubs, monthly calendar — launching in France, with a European rollout to follow. In-person meetups, when you're ready.
What exactly is obuny?
An online community for consenting adults — couples, men, women — who want to meet, chat and explore their sexuality freely. Encrypted chat, public rooms, events, games. Launched in beta in France, with a gradual European rollout.
Is it really free?
Yes, no card required. Every feature is accessible during the beta. Your feedback helps us build the platform.
How does privacy work?
Private messages are end-to-end encrypted. Photos are blurred by default — you choose who sees your real face. Nickname and approximate city only. Human moderation team, urgent reports prioritised.
Who can sign up?
Consenting adults: couples, men, women. 18+ minimum, verified at signup. No need to call yourself a 'swinger' — the community is open to anyone who wants to explore in confidence.
How does it work for couples?
Verified couple profile, dedicated couples space, two-person features (shared chat, couple events). Built for couples who explore together.
Will I get harassed?
No: no DMs without mutual consent, photos blurred by default, one-click reporting. Urgent reports are prioritised by a human moderation team. You choose who can message you.
Is there a mobile app?
You can add obuny to your home screen from Safari or Chrome and use it like a real app (PWA). Apple and Google don't allow adult apps on their stores — that's why we ship on the web, designed to behave like a native app.
How is this different from regular dating sites?
This isn't a dating site. It's a community where people talk, learn, share testimonials and join events. The in-person meet-up happens when you're ready.
