Who is it for?

For couples, singles, swingers and polyamorous people

As a pair, solo or more: here you say what you’re looking for, without having to justify yourself.

You’re a couple

Together for years or just a few months, you feel like opening a door: meeting another couple, a woman, a man — or simply talking about it first. You go at your own pace, and you decide together.

• One profile, for twoboth your ages, and what you’re looking for together.
• A verified profilethe blue badge reassures the people you message.
• Your photos, your rulesyour private photos only open to your friends.

You’re a single woman

You’re very much in demand, and you want to stay in control. You choose who can message you, what you show, and to whom.

• You choose who messages youcouples, women, men: other messages wait in your Requests.
• Discreet if you likea nickname, blur on a face, photos for your friends only.
• Block, reportin one tap; a no never needs explaining.

You’re a single man

You’re looking to meet people, and you know first impressions count. Here, you message whoever you like, without paying to send a message.

• Messaging free for lifeno match to wait for, you write directly.
• A profile people want to answera photo, a bio, what you’re really looking for.
• Respect firstthe rules are clear, and they apply to everyone.

You’re polyamorous

You love more than one person, or you’re in an open relationship, and you’re tired of explaining. Here, you have nothing to justify: you say how you live, and what you’re looking for.

• Every kind of relationshipas two, as three, open: everyone writes their own.
• People who get itrooms for group chats, with no pressure.

You’re a swinger

Partner swapping, same-room play, threesomes: you already know the scene, or you’re taking your first steps. Here you’ll find couples and singles near you, and the places to meet them.

• Swingers clubsclubs and parties across the UK, in our free guide.
• Free tonight?set your availability and see who else is free.

• UK swingers clubs guide
• For couples

You’re simply curious

You haven’t tried anything yet, and that’s absolutely fine. You read, you ask your questions, you write when you’re ready — nobody will hold it against you.

• At your own paceno obligation to post, write or meet.
• Answersour guides and the community are here for your questions.

Frequently asked questions