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we had this meet in dublin a fortnight ago with another couple weve been chatting to online for months and i swear to god... everyone fancied everyone. not in a polite way in a properly mutual way. th
ok hear me out... i know everyone showers obvs but i take a proper bath with bubbles and oils for like 45 mins before any meet. candles on, glass of wine, the whole vibe. its not just hygiene its like
so the rule was condoms with others. fine. then last weekend in this Airbnb in Hackney the other guy goes in without and my wife didn't stop him. i saw. she saw me see. nobody said anything. drove bac
we had a lovely night with another couple on friday, exchanged numbers obviously. saturday morning i woke up wanting to send a "thanks for last night, had a brilliant time" message. my wife thinks we
reading all the safety threads ppl mention dental dams for oral on women but ive been in the LS 3 yrs now and ive literally never seen one IRL. never had a partner offer, never offered one myself, nev
i'm about 7 weeks into a 12 week wait after a properly stupid night at a play party in sydney. condom failed, partner i didn't know well, alcohol involved, i won't go into more than that. i got on pep
theres a bloke in our scene, mid 60s, single, comes to munches alone, sits at the same end of the bar, has a pint of bitter, knows everyone, gossips about nothing. ive watched him for years. he never
ok i know AFF has a bad reputation for bots and i was ready to write it off completely but a couple we trust said its actually gotten better lately and they met 2 real couples through it in the last y
genuine q for the community. can u actually shag someone whose worldview u find horrible if the chemistry is undeniable... me and the wife disagree on this hard. she says politics doesnt come in the b
live in cape town, new-ish to the scene. there are mainly two kinds of events near me - "couples and select singles" which i can't get into easily, and the open "any singles welcome" events which are
tldr getting sober is changing the LS for me and i need to talk to ppl who get it. im 44, hubby 46, married 17 yrs, in the LS 8 yrs, just outside cork. ive been sober 18 months in june. wasnt rock bo
feels strange to be writing this at our age but here we go. me 65, dh 65, we've been married 41 yrs, raised two kids who are both settled, retired about 3 yrs ago and after a slow lockdown era we star
Our therapist asks me the same question every session. "Are you sure you're not motivated by control? Or by revenge?" I tell her no, every time, and every time I leave her office in Stoke Newington un
right so me n the wife are food ppl, she trained at ballymaloe, im a sommelier, n our ls dinner parties have become a Bit of a thing in the cork scene... 6 ppl, 5 courses, wine pairings, the whole thi
so im t1 for 22 yrs, on a pump for 10. me and wife in the LS for 4 yrs. heres what nobody talks about... what do u do w ur pump during play. detach? leave attached? where do u clip it? i keep getting
i'm the CEO of a 200 person company in manchester, fairly public role, journalists ring me for comment occasionally, conference speaker etc. dh has been gently raising the LS for about 18mo now and im
ok so i teach at one of those very traditional private schools in toronto, you know the type, blazers and latin mottos and parents who summer in muskoka. dh and i are mid 30s and started exploring the
lol this is gonna sound like such a basic q but its been on my mind. we did a hotel party last sat, 3 couples, 1 single F, played in 2 separate rooms with diff partners over abt 4 hrs. between partner
hes 61, im 56. weve been in the LS 12 yrs and the last 2 hes really slowed. used to be the most reliable man i knew, now its hit and miss. hes seen a dr, T is low-normal, hes on a small dose of replac
we've got two kids 9 and 12. their dad and i split a yr ago cuz he developed feelings for someone in our LS group and refused to give her up. fine, whatever, we're past that. what i'm struggling with