For couples

Dating for swinger and polyamorous couples

There are two of you, and you’d like to open up your relationship: meet other couples, a woman, a man, swingers or polyamorous people. Here, you decide together, at your own pace.

You want to open up your relationship

Together for years or just a few months, you’re already talking about it. Maybe you know exactly what you want. Maybe you’d rather look, read and chat first. Both are welcome. Nobody will rush you, and nobody will judge you.

One profile, for two

• A couple profileboth your ages, what you’re looking for together, a photo to introduce yourselves.
• A verified profilethe blue badge next to your nickname shows you’re a real couple.
• A nickname, never your namesyou choose what people call you.
• Your private photos, for your friendsthey only open to members whose friend request you’ve accepted.
• Blurto hide a face, a tattoo or a detail before you post.

Who you can meet

Filter by town, distance and profile type: you see the people most like you first.

• Other couplesfor a drink, an evening, or more if both sides feel like it.
• A woman, a mansingles who are also looking for a couple.
• Polyamorous peoplewho already have several relationships, and know how to talk about it.
• Swingersbeginners or regulars on the scene.

You choose who messages you

Couples, women, men: you decide who can message you directly. Other messages wait in your Requests, and you open them when you like.

• Messaging free for lifeno match to wait for: if you like a profile, you message them.
• Block, reportin one tap. A no never needs explaining.

Free tonight?

Set your availability in one tap: now, tonight, or up to three days ahead, with a time if you like. Only the profiles you’ve chosen can see it: couples, women or men.

• 24-hour storiesvisible to everyone, or just your friends.
• Near youeach country has its own feed: you meet people from your area.

Moving forward together, at your own pace

What couples who’ve taken the plunge advise those just starting out.

1. 1Talk it through at length firstyour desires, your limits, your fears: what’s possible, and what isn’t.
2. 2Choose a “stop” wordif either of you says it, you stop, no discussion.
3. 3First meeting somewhere neutrala bar, a swingers club: it’s easier to leave than somewhere private.
4. 4Debrief the next daywhat did we enjoy, what would we do again, what do we avoid?
5. 5Both of you being comfortable matters equallyif one of you slows down, you both slow down.

Swingers clubs and parties for couples

Our free guide gathers swingers clubs and parties across the UK, for your first night out as a couple and the ones after.

• UK swingers clubs guide
• Community

Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions (continued)

To go further

• Who is it for?
• All the questions
• Get your profile verified
• Safety and privacy
• The community