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Verification

The blue badge : verification for couples and women

In a few minutes, in a dedicated conversation, you prove that you’re real. A blue badge appears next to your nickname, and the people you message can see it.

Why get your profile verified?

Verification doesn’t unlock anything hidden: it shows other members that your profile is genuine.

  • A blue badge next to your nicknamevisible to the whole community.
  • More credibilitywith the couples and women you message.
  • Fewer fake profilesevery verified profile makes the community safer for everyone.
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Who can be verified?

  • Couplesone profile, verified as a pair, using the method of your choice.
  • Womena single step, in a few minutes.

Verification isn’t open to men’s profiles yet.

How to get verified, step by step

  1. 1Create your free accounta nickname, a photo, and off you go. No credit card.
  2. 2Open the Verification conversationin the menu, tap “Verify my profile”.
  3. 3Choose “Verify my account”then the method that suits you from the three below.
  4. 4Send your voice note or photodirectly in the conversation.
  5. 5A moderator approves your profileas quickly as possible: the blue badge then appears next to your nickname.
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Three methods to choose from

  • A voice noteusing the mic button, say your nickname clearly and introduce yourself in a few words. As a couple, take turns speaking: both voices must be heard.
  • Your ID documenta photo of the front only, sent as view-once: only the moderator can open it, just once. For a couple, the woman’s ID is requested.
  • A photo with a handwritten noteyour face and a sheet of paper handwritten with “obuny”, your nickname and today’s date. AI-generated images are refused.
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What you send stays confidential

Your verification voice notes and photos are never published. They are used only by the moderator to approve your profile.

Trouble recording?

No problem. Just write in the Verification conversation, or choose “Talk to support”: a moderator will reply and help you all the way through.

See also

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Frequently asked questions

Is verification compulsory?

No. In the UK and across Europe, it’s entirely optional: you can message, post stories and events and chat in rooms without being verified. It’s simply an extra mark of trust.

Who can get their profile verified?

Couples and women. Verification isn’t open to men’s profiles yet.

Will my voice note or photo be published?

Never. They stay strictly confidential, between you and the moderator. The ID photo is sent as view-once: only the moderator can open it, just once.

How long does it take?

A few minutes on your side. A moderator then reviews what you’ve sent and approves your profile as quickly as possible.

Does it cost anything?

No. Like everything on obuny, verification is free.

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