About
About obuny, the site for open-minded people
You’re a couple, single or more, and you’re looking for people like you, near you. Here you find them, message them for free, and stay in control of what you show.
What obuny is for you
A place where you say what you’re looking for, without having to justify yourself: meeting another couple, a woman, a man, living an open relationship — or simply talking about it first. Members in 67 countries, and each country has its own feed, its own rooms and its own availability: you see people from where you live, never a mix from somewhere else.
Meet people near you
- A search that suits youby town, distance or profile type: couples, women or men.
- Who’s free tonight?now, tonight or up to three days ahead, visible only to the profiles you choose.
- Profiles with a facea photo is required at sign-up, so you know who you’re talking to.
Talk, one to one or as a group
- Messaging free for lifeno match to wait for: if you like a profile, you message them.
- Rooms by countryto get to know people as a group, then carry on in private.
- 24-hour storiesvisible to everyone, or just your friends.
Your discretion, your rules
- A nickname, never your namenobody knows your real name.
- Your private photos stay privatethey only open to your friends, the people whose request you accepted.
- Blur in one tapa face, a detail: you stay discreet.
A community built on respect
- Know who you’re talking tocouples and women can have their profile verified: the blue badge appears next to the nickname.
- Block, reportin one tap; a no never needs explaining.
- A moderated communitythe rules are public, and they apply to everyone.
Swingers clubs, as well as members
Alongside the members, our free guide gathers swingers clubs and parties across the UK.
Frequently asked questions
What is obuny?
A free dating site and app for couples, singles, swingers and polyamorous people. You meet people near you, chat privately or in groups, and organise your nights out. Members in 67 countries.
Is obuny free?
Yes, 100%. Signing up, private messages, rooms, stories, photos and search are all free, with no credit card. And messaging will stay free for life.
Frequently asked questions : discretion and what’s different
Is it discreet?
You choose a nickname, never your name. Your private photos only open to your friends, blur hides a face or a detail, and you can hide your availability from anyone you like.
How is obuny different?
No match to wait for: if you like a profile, you message them. Couples and women can get their profiles verified, and the community is moderated.
Fancy getting started?
100% free, no credit card. Adults only.
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