A space for women — no harassment, no surprises.

A chat designed around you. You choose who can write to you, what you see, and who exists on your screen. Real moderation is at your back.

Why women choose us

Moderation that gets it

A team trained specifically in online violence and gender-based harassment. Reports go to humans, not a chatbot.

Anti-pic auto-filter

Messages containing unsolicited intimate photos are filtered out before you even see them. Zero nasty surprises on opening.

Verified men filter

Verified badge for men who've validated ID. You can switch on strict mode and only receive from them.

Block and report in one tap

A button wipes the other person off your screen for good. Serious reports go to the team, and where there's an offence we pass it to the police.

1. You set your safety rules

Choose who can contact you, turn on auto-blocking of unsolicited photos, and the option to only show verified men.

2. Browse with filters

See who's online, filter by city, age, status and verification. You decide who's worth a message.

3. Talk without pressure

Anonymous conversations, one-tap block and report. If a line gets crossed, a human team steps in and escalates to the police if needed.

Frequently asked questions

How does moderation actually work?

A human team active 24/7, trained in online violence. Urgent reports are handled within minutes, blocks are permanent, and every incident is logged.

Is it legal to chat here?

Yes. obuny is an anonymous chat for adults over 18, operated under GDPR. No personal data is exposed to the other side.

What do I do if I'm harassed?

You hit Block, they disappear. You hit Report, the human team reviews within minutes. For serious cases we build a file and hand it to the police with the evidence.

Is my data protected?

We don't store the content of finished conversations (except reported cases). Your number isn't exposed. The other side only sees a username and the age you chose to show.

How does verification of men work?

Men can submit ID for manual verification. After approval they get a Verified badge. You can switch on a mode where only they can write to you.

When can I get support?

Support chat is available 24/7 in English and French. Safety-related requests are prioritised and get a reply within minutes.

Your space, your rules.

Start talking now. No sign-up to browse, and no compromise on your safety.

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obuny — online community for consenting adults

obuny is an adult community and chat platform for couples and singles. Encrypted private messaging, public rooms, anonymous Q&A. Free, beta. Available in French, Hebrew, English, German, Spanish, Italian, Dutch, Portuguese, Russian.