Lesbian chat — between us, no men in disguise

The lesbian chat we wished we had from day one: F-only filter locked by default, moderation trained against straight-couple fetishisation, and you choose who to approach in the list of women online. No roulette, no forced matching, no straight couple chasing a unicorn.

Why our lesbian chat

F-only locked by default

Zero male profiles in your list. This is different from /chat-lgbt which is a multi-orientation umbrella — here it's strictly women who love women.

Dedicated lesbian safe space

Moderation trained against straight-couple fetishisation, unsolicited threesome requests and homophobic harassment. Different from /chat-femmes which is a mixed space with generic safety.

You pick who to approach

List of women online with declared orientation. No algorithm pushing random profiles at you, no forced matching — you scan, you choose, you start.

Free browse without sign-up

See who's online, read bios, test the vibe — no account. Sign-up only for video and persistent DMs, to secure your username.

How it works

1. Open chat.obuny.com

The F-only filter is already ticked with a purple padlock. You instantly see the women online, with their declared orientation — lesbian, bi, queer, questioning.

2. Read bios, filter by city

Micro-bio on every profile, filter by Manchester, Dublin, Toronto or by interests. Tap the person who actually speaks to you, no timer and no roulette pressure.

3. Start in text, move to video when it's mutual

Text start with no sign-up. When the conversation takes off and you both want video or a persistent DM — quick sign-up to secure your username and your exchanges.

Frequently asked questions

How do you verify there are no men in the lesbian chat?

The F-only filter is locked by default, and any profile flagged as a man in disguise goes through human review. If in doubt, a video verification is requested — refusal = immediate suspension. Reports are handled in under 10 minutes on average.

What's the difference between /chat-lesbiennes, /chat-lgbt and /chat-femmes?

/chat-lesbiennes is exclusively women who love women, F-only locked. /chat-lgbt is a multi-orientation umbrella (men, women, non-binary) — fully mixed. /chat-femmes is a mixed space (women + respectful men) with generic safety, it isn't a lesbian safe space.

Are bi and queer women welcome or is this lesbians only?

The whole WLW spectrum is at home: lesbians, bi, pan, queer, questioning and trans women. The only rule — what's in the bio is what counts, no interrogation and no biphobia. You declare, we respect.

How do I report fetishisation or a straight couple chasing a unicorn?

Report button on every profile and every conversation. Reports of fetishisation and unicorn requests are treated as high priority — a proven behavioural pattern triggers an immediate site-wide ban.

Do I have to sign up to see who's online and read bios?

No. Browsing the list of women online and reading micro-bios stays free and anonymous. Sign-up is only asked for video and persistent DMs — and it takes 40 seconds.

Is video required or can I stick to text?

Text-only is completely legitimate. Plenty of women prefer to build trust before video — nobody can force you, and if anyone tries, you report in one tap.

Is the service really free, where are the hidden fees?

No hidden fees. Chat, video, DM and all core features are free. Premium options exist (visibility boosts for example) but they're strictly optional — browsing, chat and core rights for everyone.

Are my conversations private and can I stay anonymous?

Yes. You pick a username rather than your real name, you don't reveal your precise location, and DMs are encrypted between two registered accounts. You control what you expose — every conversation is deletable from both sides.

Between us starts here

Women are connected now, F-only locked, switched-on moderation. No reason to wait — drop in, choose, start.

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obuny — online community for consenting adults

obuny is an adult community and chat platform for couples and singles. Encrypted private messaging, public rooms, anonymous Q&A. Free, beta. Available in French, Hebrew, English, German, Spanish, Italian, Dutch, Portuguese, Russian.