LGBTQ+ safe space. Anonymous. Adult.

An adult LGBTQ+ community — gay, lesbian, bi, trans, queer, non-binary, pan. Identity badges you choose to display, filters that respect you, moderation that gets your lived experience.

Why the community sticks around

Opt-in identity badges

Gay, lesbian, bi, trans, queer, non-binary, pan — show what you want, hide what you want, change it when you want.

Anti-discrimination moderation

The team is trained to recognise homophobia, transphobia and biphobia. Hate speech = immediate ban, no warning.

Filter by orientation and gender

Trans women and bi women can block whole categories of intrusive accounts in one tap — without having to justify it.

Active UK + IL community

London, Manchester, Dublin, Edinburgh, Belfast, Tel Aviv — an English- and Hebrew-speaking scene connected 24/7.

1. Pick your identity — if you want

Tick orientation and gender identity only if it suits you. Nothing is assigned by default, nothing is outed without you.

2. Browse the community

See who's connected, who's like you, and filter out those who've nothing to be here for. You're choosing — not an algorithm.

3. Talk without clenching your jaw

Text, voice, video. One-tap reporting. Human moderation that knows the difference between flirting and homophobia.

FAQ

Am I really anonymous?

Yes. As a guest, you browse and chat without giving anything up. Username, no phone number, no ID. Sign-up (30 seconds, email only, optional) unlocks voice/video/photos — without ever linking your account to your civil identity.

Do I have to declare my orientation or gender identity?

No. Identity badges are 100% opt-in. You can browse without showing anything, tick just one, or change it all later. Visibility stays yours, always.

What if someone harasses me about my identity?

One report = human check within minutes. Our team is specifically trained in homophobia, transphobia and biphobia. Hate speech = permanent ban, no warning, no second chance.

Is it genuinely inclusive of trans and non-binary people?

Yes. Pronouns (he / she / they / other) appear on the profile, are respected by the interface, and protected by moderation rules. Trans women can filter out cis men chasing a fetish, and people early in transition get a calm space if they want one.

What about minors?

Forbidden. obuny is strictly adult (18+), the LGBTQ+ space included. Any approach to a minor or suspicion of a minor user leads to immediate ban and reporting to authorities if needed.

Is it legal where I am?

In the UK, Ireland, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and Israel, anonymous adult chat is fully legal. We follow GDPR, don't sell your data, and don't run ad targeting on your orientation.

Your space is already open.

No need to hide in another chat. Drop in, look around, and talk to someone who actually sees you.

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obuny — online community for consenting adults

obuny is an adult community and chat platform for couples and singles. Encrypted private messaging, public rooms, anonymous Q&A. Free, beta. Available in French, Hebrew, English, German, Spanish, Italian, Dutch, Portuguese, Russian.