obuny's private chat is a 1-to-1 DM — not a room, not a group, not an audience. You browse the online members, you pick the specific person to talk to, and the thread stays between the two of you. No spectators, no shared log, no noise around.
Frequently asked questions
What's the difference between /chat-prive and /chat-rooms?
/chat-rooms groups public multi-user rooms: several members read the same messages, the vibe is collective. /chat-prive is an isolated 1-to-1 DM: strictly two participants, no spectators, no shared log. Two distinct technical modes, not a variant.
What's the difference between /chat-prive and /chat-discret?
/chat-prive describes the technical mode (1-to-1, isolated thread). /chat-discret describes a relational positioning (anonymity, separation from couple life, exposure safeguards). Private = how the conversation is built; discreet = how you present yourself. The two complement each other, they don't replace each other.
Can I use the private chat without creating an account?
Yes. Browsing the list of online members and writing in text in a 1-to-1 DM needs no sign-up. Only 1-to-1 video or audio needs a free account, and creation takes a minute.
How do I invite a specific person by direct link or handle?
Each member has a handle and a direct link like chat.obuny.com/dm/handle. Copy it, send it to the targeted person, and they arrive straight in your 1-to-1 thread — not in a room, not in a queue. The thread is created for the two of you.
Are my private messages visible to other members or moderators?
Not to other members: the thread stays closed between the two of you. Moderation only steps in on explicit report (harassment, spam, breach of terms). No routine surveillance, just a recourse channel if needed.
Can I switch to video in a 1-to-1 private chat?
Yes. Same isolated thread, same two people: a button starts duo video or audio. A free account is required for video, but the thread stays exactly the same — no new room, no mode change.
How do I block or leave a private conversation if I change my mind?
A block button is in every thread. One click is enough: the person can't write to you any more, the conversation closes on your side. No justification to give, no public notification.
Why doesn't /chat-prive have random matching like /chat-aleatoire?
Because it's precisely the opposite concept. In /chat-prive, you pick the person — not an algorithm, not a roulette. For a random meeting, there's /chat-aleatoire; here, you know who you want and you go and find them.