Anonymous dating chat, one to one. You see who's actually connected, you send a message, the conversation starts. If it clicks, you switch to voice or video in one tap.
Why obuny for a spontaneous meet
100% free for text
No paid minutes, no premium gating, no card. Fancy a chat — you have one.
Verified online status
If the dot is green, the person is actually at their screen right now. We don't show dead profiles from six months ago.
Precise filters
Age, city, intent. Result: the people you see actually fit what you're after tonight.
Spontaneous, no strings
You drop in, you chat, you leave whenever. No matching game, no infinite scroll, no pressure.
1. Filter by city and age
London, Manchester, Dublin, Sydney, Toronto — pick your area, age range and intent. You only see people who match your criteria.
2. Pick your intent
Something serious, something spontaneous, friendship+, or just a chat. Everyone says upfront what they're after — no crossed wires.
3. Send a message, start the chat
Text first, anonymous. If you click — you step up to voice or video (free account, 30 seconds, just an email).
Frequently asked questions
Is the chat really anonymous?
Yes. As a guest, no real name, no public profile, no phone number. Just a username. You only need a free account (email only) for voice/video — and even then your identity stays hidden from the other person.
How is it different from other dating sites?
Here you see who's connected right now, not an archive of profiles. You send a message in 3 seconds instead of wasting days swiping. The conversation is always private, one-to-one, never group.
Who am I going to bump into?
English-speaking adults 18+ — London, Manchester, Dublin, Sydney, Toronto, Auckland, and more. Everyone displays their intent (serious, casual, just a chat), so no nasty surprises.
Is it really free?
Yes. Text free for life, no minutes ticking down. Voice and video also free — you just need a free account (30 seconds by email) to enable photos and video.
Can I filter by age and city?
Yes. Filter by age range, city/region, and intent (serious, casual, friendship). The filter is live — you only see people connected now who match.
What if someone is rude or disrespectful?
Block button in every conversation — one tap and they disappear. Anonymous reporting for abusive behaviour. Human moderation 24/7 on reports.