Anonymous chat rooms. By theme, by city.

Instead of a one-to-one chat, drop into a public room. London, Manchester, swingers, singles — you walk in, you listen, you write when you're ready. No pressure, no sign-up.

Why rooms beat one-to-one

By theme and by city

Pick who you'll meet based on what you're into — swingers, singles in London. Everyone finds their tribe.

Listen before you speak

In a public room, you can 'read' people before you write. It massively cuts the anxiety of the first message.

No strings

You walk in, you walk out — completely free. No conversation on hold, nobody waiting on your reply.

Mobile and desktop

Same experience on phone and computer. Rooms stay in sync — you pick up where you left off.

1. Pick a room

Browse the rooms — by city (London, Manchester, Dublin), by theme (swingers, singles, couples), by time of day.

2. Listen and feel it out

You drop in. You read what's being said. You get the vibe of the place. No pressure to write right away.

3. Write when you're ready

When you feel like it — you write. Free guest access for text. For voice or video in the room — free 30-second sign-up.

Frequently asked questions

How many people are in a room?

Depends. Popular rooms like 'London Nights' or 'Swingers' reach 100-200 people at once. Smaller niche rooms: 5-30 people. A 'more than X online' filter is available.

Do I need to sign up to write in a room?

No, free guest is enough for text. Yes for voice and video in the room (if the room allows them) — free 30-second sign-up, email only, no card needed.

Are conversations archived?

Room history is visible for a few hours so you get the context when you walk in. It isn't archived long-term, and isn't indexed by search engines.

Can you create your own room?

Yes. Signed-up users can open a public or private room, pick the theme, and invite others. The room appears in the public list or only to invitees.

What if a room gets noisy or abusive?

One-tap report on a user or the room. Instant block on your side. Active moderation team works through reports.

What languages are the rooms in?

Mainly English and Hebrew. French in some rooms too. The interface supports 38 languages, rooms open based on the communities present.

Ready to drop into a room?

1,200+ online now, spread across dozens of rooms. Pick one, lurk, and write when you fancy.

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obuny — online community for consenting adults

obuny is an adult community and chat platform for couples and singles. Encrypted private messaging, public rooms, anonymous Q&A. Free, beta. Available in French, Hebrew, English, German, Spanish, Italian, Dutch, Portuguese, Russian.