a couple with literally zero online presence anywhere... how do you vet them... met a couple at a play party in toronto, vibes were great, want to meet again privately. they gave us their first names and asked us to add them on the lifestyle app... but i did my usual due diligence search and they have NO online presence anywhere. no linkedin, no facebook, no instagram, nothing. not even under a nickname or partial spelling. for two people in their late 30s thats... unusual? not impossible but unusual. how do you guys vet a couple who are very private without being weird about it? id rather not bin a good potential connection over paranoia but also not stupid