a&e at 3am for a stuck condom and i nearly died of embarrassment

right confession time and someone please tell me they've been thru similar. saturday night, hotel meet near gatwick, second condom of the night got fully wedged up there and would not come out. we tried for honestly 45 mins, i was in tears, dh was being lovely but useless, the other couple offered to leave and we said no stay we'll figure it out, eventually i had to admit defeat and go to a&e. the triage nurse did not even blink, said it's their tuesday tbh, and a doctor had it out in 2 mins with a speculum. she was so kind, didn't ask any questions she didn't need to. the only awkward bit was the form asking what i was there for and writing it down lol. now wondering — how do you bring this up with future play partners as a "btw it's happened, here's what we do to avoid it"... and do other women keep something specific to hand to fish them out before it's an a&e situation

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