afab partner pre-T joining me in the LS, how has that shifted things for you

my partner came out as a trans man about 8 months ago, hasnt started T yet but is socially out, new name, he/him etc... we were active in the LS as what people read as a "straight couple" before, and now we're trying to figure out what re-entry looks like. profile still up but paused. he's saying he still wants to play with women and couples, just not be misgendered while doing it, which is fair. anyone been in this exact spot? how did your existing contacts respond when you updated them? did you lose your whole list or did most people roll with it? we're in melbourne if location matters...

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