after my miscarriage another lifestyle couple held space for us in a way our vanilla friends couldnt losing the pregnancy last autumn broke me and my husband in ways i couldnt explain to most of our friends. we'd been quietly close to another couple from our local scene for a year or so... no play in months bcs i wasnt up for it but they kept checking in. when i finally told them what happened they drove 90 mins to sit with us on the sofa with curry and tea. no advice no platitudes. just there. its not about lifestyle at that point its about chosen family who don't flinch at hard things. is this just us or do others find these connections go deeper than expected...