an actual stranger pickup from a bar in 2026... is it even doable anymore

we keep talking about doing the classic - go to a normal vanilla bar in a city we dont live in, my wife approaches someone, brings him back to our hotel. its like the cinematic LS bucket list move. but is this even a thing anymore in 2026? feels like everyone meets through apps and clubs now. last time we tried (london, 2 yrs ago) wife had 3 guys ask her out within an hour but as soon as she mentioned i was there or hinted at the situation they all backed off. is the vanilla bar pickup a dead art... and if you've actually done one recently, where

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