anyone had real luck on Bumble with the "open to ENM" tag

so a friend of ours uses Bumble in ENM mode (they are technically poly not LS but adjacent) and swears its been better than dedicated platforms. apparently the ENM tag attracts people who are curious but havent committed to LS platforms yet, and the conversations are higher quality because bumble forces women to message first. we are 33F 34M couple and considering setting up a bumble-couple profile or having me run it solo and disclose the couple early. wondering if anyone here has actually done this in 2025 or 2026 and whether the ENM tag on mainstream apps is finally working or if its still mostly aspirational

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