are hotwife/cuck couples actually welcome at mainstream swinger clubs or do we clash

F39 / M42, hotwife dynamic 3 yrs, our play has been almost all hotel dates or private with one or two bulls. we've never gone to a swinger club. friends have been telling us to try one and weve been hesitant because the club scene seems built around couples-swap-with-couples and were not really that. were a wife-and-bull dynamic with a husband who watches sometimes and stays home other times. questions for ppl whove been at mainstream lifestyle clubs like trapeze, sea mountain, the various private clubs around. do they actually accommodate single-female-with-husband-watching scenarios or are you basically expected to be doing partner swap. do single male bulls even get into these clubs (i know most clubs are couples-only or limit single males drastically). would we need to show up just the two of us and find a bull there or do we bring our existing bull and risk weird vibes. i feel like the hotwife dynamic exists in a parallel universe from swinger clubs even though theyre nominally the same lifestyle. anyone bridged this gap successfully... whats the etiquette, the fit, the awkwardness if any