awful confession — accents turn me on more than bodies do and i feel weird about it

right im just gonna say it. im a woman in my late 30s, in the LS with my husband about four years, we live in cardiff. and over those four years ive realised something about my own attraction patterns that i havent properly said out loud to anyone. bodies are nice. fine. genuinely never been the most picky person on that front, my husband knows i find a real range attractive. but accents... an accent can take a bloke ive previously been totally neutral about and flip a switch i didnt know was there. and ive been clocking which ones do it for me and its a properly random list. french men, obviously, but also irish men, certain west african accents, a particular flavour of new zealand accent thats not even the common one. and then some accents i would have GUESSED would work on me, dont. at all. the bit i feel weird about isnt the kink itself, its that i can feel myself in conversations at meets giving more attention to blokes purely based on how they sound when i can't even see them yet, like at the bar. and that feels closer to fetishising than i want to admit. like the body i can dress up in "i find lots of people attractive", but the accent thing has me actively rewarding ppl for an accident of where they grew up. other ppl have an accent thing? where does it sit for you, harmless preference or something to actually keep an eye on.

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