bi-male/straight-female couples vs straight-couple dynamics... very different experience

something i've noticed as a solo bi woman in cork over the last couple of years and want to see if others agree. play with bi-male/straight-female couples has been wildly different from play with straight-couple setups. the bmsf couples i've been with tend to be way more relaxed about who does what with whom, less "the wife is the prize" energy, more genuine three way attention. with straight couples it's often more scripted around what the husband wants to see. anyone else clocked this or am i drawing a pattern from too few data points... curious what others' experience is...

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