BiM partner navigating cishet club nights, exhausting... my partner is openly bi and we're in a lifestyle club in the midlands that is technically "open minded" but in practice is about 95% straight couples who treat his bisexuality as either invisible or as my problem to manage. he gets the "so are you actually bi or just open" question every single night. we've started gravitating toward smaller mixed parties and bi-leaning meets but they're thin on the ground here. anyone in similar UK regions found pockets that work or do we just need to travel to brighton every time