"body positive" clubs in the LS — actually a thing or just marketing copy

genuine q. we're a midsize couple, im 5'4 size 14ish, dh is around 230 lbs, and every club website we look at has a "body positive" or "all bodies welcome" line on the about page. then we show up and the crowd is suspiciously consistent (read: not particularly diverse in body shape). are there any clubs anywhere that actually back up the language with reality on the floor or is "body positive" just SEO at this point. and like, im not trying to dunk on smaller folks at clubs at all, more curious whether the marketing is just attracting one demo while telling everyone else they're welcome. has anyone found venues where the in-real-life mix matches the website... and how do u find them without flying across the country