boob comparison spiral after last meet, she was a full D and Im a small B and I cant stop

I know I know this is so basic and I hate that Im posting it. Im 34, two kids, breastfed both, boobs are what they are and Ive been mostly fine with them for years. then last weekend we hooked up with another couple and she had these like... textbook full natural D's and my husband was very into them in a way that was not subtle. he wasnt rude or anything, he just couldnt stop touching them. like he physically could not let go. and Im over here being kissed by her partner who was lovely but my entire brain was in the other corner of the bed watching dh kinda worship her chest. since then Ive been doing weird stuff. measured myself three times in the mirror. googled "do men prefer big boobs" at 1am like a teenager. brought it up with him sideways in the car and he said the right things but I could tell he was tired of the topic which made it worse. are there any other smaller chested women in the LS who got through this?? bc the algorithm of who we match with seems to skew bigger and I dont wanna become the wife who vetoes every couple bc the other woman is hotter than me in one specific way. that feels like a road I dont wanna go down. how do you reset.