bumble has an enm mode now... the women-message-first thing in this context?

so bumble has had the open to non monogamy filter for ages but i never properly explored what the women-message-first dynamic does in this space. me and the wife set up her profile with enm openly stated. she's now in the position of having to make the first move on couples or single guys we match with. she says it feels different to vanilla bumble bc she's asking for something specific not just a vague hello. anyone else use bumble specifically and find the dynamic actually works better for enm or worse...