c section scar still messes with me at meets even tho literally no one has ever commented

im 35, had an emergency c section 4 yrs ago, scar healed pretty well actually, kind of low and not super dramatic looking. but every single time we have a meet i find myself angling my body so its less visible, keeping the lights lower, pulling sheets up, all this stuff. and the wild part is no one has EVER said anything about it. not one comment in 4 yrs of being back in the scene. so the issue is clearly in my head not in their reactions. how do other moms with surgical scars actually make peace with this. is it just time, is it specific therapy, did anyone find that one really kind partner reaction unlocked something for u, or is it just a thing u live with quietly and work around. i feel silly making a post about something nobody else has noticed but it still affects how present i can be