cycling weekend turned into a ls weekend & nobody planned it... right so im in a roadie club in the home counties, middle aged in lycra crowd, very polite very competitive... me n the wife host a wknd ride n bbq every summer, abt 8 couples come down, stay at ours or nearby... last yr after the ride one of the wives said she n her husband were "in the lifestyle" n asked if we were? we're not, but we're curious n said so... by the end of the night 3 other couples had come out to us as ls n we'd all been riding together for 5 yrs not knowing... is mamil culture secretly horny or is this just my friend group being mental lol... we're thinking of going to a meet now but feels weird to swing w mates we've known forever from cycling