documentaries... "open" on hulu vs the bbc takes, which one got us right

so weve watched basically every LS doc that exists at this point lol, its a guilty habit on rainy sundays in edinburgh. open on hulu felt like the most respectful... they actually let the couples speak without an ominous voiceover. compare that to the bbc panorama style stuff which always has the "but is it harming relationships???" framing baked in. and dont get me started on louis theroux who did a swingers one that was sympathetic but still slightly bewildered. who do you reckon got it right and which doc do you wish you could un-recommend to your curious friends...