feeld in 2026 vs 2020... has it actually got worse? genuine question for the old timers... me and partner were on feeld back in 2019/2020 and it felt like a properly curated kink/enm space. came back recently after a few years off and it feels... different? loads of single guys, premium features behind paywalls, matches that ghost within 2 messages. anyone else feel like it's gone the way of every other app — bought up, vc-ified, watered down? or am i just remembering it through rose tinted goggles...