first M-M touch happened in a soft swap, didnt expect that... soft swap night at a private place outside cardiff, lights low, all four of us on the same big bed but in our own "lanes" yknow. somewhere in the middle of it the other husband's hand ended up on my thigh and instead of moving it i just... didnt. wife clocked it instantly, gave me this look like "babe??" and then smiled. nothing massive happened but we kissed for like a minute and i havent stopped thinking about it since. is soft swap secretly where loads of bi-curious blokes have their first moment, feels like it might be