"first time but very curious"... is this a red flag pattern now... maybe im jaded but every "couple" claiming to be brand new and "very curious" lately turns out to be either a single guy in disguise or a couple where shes deeply uncomfortable and hes pushing... ive started auto declining anyone whose profile leads with "first time but very curious" and i feel a bit bad because there ARE genuine first timers out there. how do you tell the difference between a real curious couple and the bait phrasing? we are in perth and the apps are flooded with this exact bio lately