first-timer at Temptation — should i even bother with the playroom or just camp at the sexy pool

wife and i (couple late 30s, 2nd year LS but mostly local stuff so far) just booked Temptation for our first warm-weather LS trip. picked it specifically bc its more "easing in" than Hedo or Desire, which we read is the right move for our experience level. were going in early november for a regular week (not a takeover). reading reddit and a few blogs, the consistent message is that Temptation's playroom is mostly dead during regular weeks, and the actual lifestyle action happens at the Sexy Pool, the bandstand area at night, and in private rooms. so my question is — should we just plan our whole week around the sexy pool by day and the bandstand by night and not even bother with the playroom? or is that gonna make us miss the one venue thats actually designed for what we want. were not planning anything wild for trip 1, mostly just to meet other couples, enjoy the topless vibe, maybe one play scenario if it happens organically. dont want to overplan but also dont want to wander aimlessly all week. specifically for couples whove done Temptation on a regular week (not takeover), what was the daily rhythm that worked. when does the sexy pool actually get going (like is it sleepy until 3pm). is the bandstand the social hub at night or is it the bar. and is the playroom worth even checking out for novelty or genuinely skip.