getting sober was part of my divorce... how the hell do you re-enter LS without drinking

so the marriage ended partly because of my drinking. i've been sober 10 months and feeling stable. i miss the LS deeply but every memory of it involves a glass of wine or three to take the edge off the social stuff. now i want back in but i don't know how to walk into a club sober. the social anxiety alone makes my hands shake just thinking about it. anyone done this... cardiff based if it matters, scene is on the smaller side here

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