grandkid weekend pickups vs LS club night... the dual life is killing me lol

we have the grandkids every other saturday, school pickup friday eve to sunday teatime. our local LS club is also saturday night. weve been juggling for 2 yrs now, swapping w our daughter when we can, but its getting awkward. she doesnt know obvs and shes started asking why nan + grandad are always "busy" on saturdays when its her week off. cant exactly say "sorry darling were going to a sex club". how do other LS grandparents manage the calendar... do you just lie, do you switch to mondays, do you pay for a sitter for the kids n go anyway haha

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