hindu couple in london in the lifestyle for 2 yrs and literally not a single other hindu couple to talk to, where are they all

so we're a gujarati couple in our late 30s, both british born, parents from kenya originally, weve lived in north london our whole adult lives. weve been on the scene about 2 yrs now, mostly couples meets in london and one trip up to a takeover in nottingham last yr. and in all that time we have not once met another hindu couple. not at a club, not online, not in any meet. ive seen sikh couples a couple of times, ive met a fair few muslim couples (mostly online not in person, and theyve been very quiet about it understandably), but other hindus genuinely nowhere. my husband's theory is theyre out there but they've all built such tight bubbles around it that they'll never meet anyone from the same community on purpose. like the whole point of being a hindu couple in the LS in london is precisely that you do not want to bump into another gujarati or punjabi family from your area at a hotel takeover in watford. which fair enough. but it's lonely in a way i didnt expect. our cultural background is part of our marriage, the way we do diwali, the way my mum still does aarti on a sunday, our wedding ceremony, the food we cook for friends. and that whole side of us has no representation in the scene we've joined. nobody at a meet asks about our diwali plans the way another desi couple would. its fine, ppl are kind, but theres a sliver missing. is there a single other hindu couple on here. or south asian more broadly. how do you hold the cultural side and the LS side without one disappearing into the other...