hinge honesty test — wrote "im a swinger" and watched matches drop did a thing this month. had hinge on the enm filter with vaguer wording for a few weeks, getting decent matches. then changed one prompt to "the most honest thing i can tell you is im a swinger" and the matches absolutely dried up. like 70% drop in the first week. anyone else done a side-by-side like this? is "swinger" the kiss of death word on hinge specifically, or do other apps react the same way? curious if the word itself is the problem or the directness...