how do u ask a new couple "when were u last tested" without killing the whole vibe

ok so we're 6 months into LS, F31 H34, still kinda awkward at the more pragmatic convos. we matched with a couple, had drinks last sat, great vibe, they texted today saying "wanna meet again maybe somewhere more private". we wanna ask the testing q before we get to that point obvs but every time i type it out it sounds like a job interview "please furnish a copy of your most recent panel" omg LOL. how do u guys phrase it casually? do u just do it over text? on a call? when u meet up? do u send urs first as a peace offering thing? i hate that this is the part im hung up on cuz like its literally the most important convo but it FEELS so unsexy and im scared theyll think we're weird or uptight

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