how do you find bi-friendly couples without filtering everyone out... genuine question from a couple in brisbane. we want bi-friendly couples cos husband is open to MMF play but every filter we set basically empties the app. half the profiles just dont list it cos they're scared of the stigma or they havent thought about it. do you start broad and ask in chat, do you mention it in your bio straight up, do you go to specific events?? we've had 3 meets fall apart cos we waited too long to bring it up and the other M panicked. need a strat that doesnt waste everyone's time