how do you talk about LS with your partner when youre both still in love and weirdly shy about it this is gonna sound strange. weve been married 12 yrs, in the LS for 4, and we still get shy talking about LS w each other. like ill have something i want to say and ill blush n stumble n he does the same. weve done all manner of wild things w other couples but the conversation between just us about what we wanna do next still feels weirdly intimate n vulnerable. is this just us being weird or is this a known thing? im not complaining honestly i find it sweet but i wonder if it slows our communication down. how do you talk about LS w someone you love when the loving makes it harder to be plain about it...