how do you write profile copy when you're a couple but one of you is enby

literally cannot crack this. we're a long term couple, one cis woman one non-binary person (they/them), and every draft of our profile bio either reads as "we're a straight couple please ignore this one fact" or "we're a queer manifesto please dont actually message us"... we want playmates of various genders but the bio has to do so much work upfront. how have other mixed couples worded this? short and direct? long and explanatory? do you mention pronouns in the first line or save it for the chat? in toronto if anyone has local resources...

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