instagram couples openly LS with matching outfits and curated grids — cringe or aspirational, be honest

right so theres this whole genre on insta now of couples who are openly lifestyle, polished feed, matching linen sets, vague captions like "the four of us had the best weekend" with three other vaguely visible silhouettes in soft focus, very lifestyle-brand-adjacent aesthetic. mr and mrs jones type accounts. and i cant tell if im jealous of how put together they look or genuinely cringing at the whole performance of it. half of me thinks fair play, theyve found a way to be open about it and they look great doing it. the other half thinks theres something a bit off about turning swinging into a content strategy with brand sponsorships and "use my code at checkout" links to a sex toy company. and im aware that as a couple in our late thirties who has played with people we found via instagram dms, i am part of the ecosystem im critiquing here. what do you actually feel when these accounts come across your feed... and have any of u played with one of these IG couples in real life and was the reality anything like the grid