is wax play actually allowed at most swinger clubs or is it strictly a kink-venue-only thing

asking practically. couple in our late thirties, into wax play at home for about 3 yrs (proper low-melt candles, paraffin/soy mix, we know what we're doing tbh). starting to bring a bit of our home kink into the LS scene now that we're comfortable. we go to a few clubs in the UK and ireland. one is more vanilla, one is mid, one is openly kink-friendly though not full-on TG level. we've done some light bondage at the kink-friendly one no problem. but i've genuinely never seen anyone doing wax there and im not sure if thats bc its banned (fire risk, mess on the furniture etc) or just bc nobody's doing it that night. i feel weird asking the host directly cause its the kind of question that flags you as "the wax couple" before you've even started lol. on the other hand showing up with candles and just lighting one is obviously not on. i don't wanna be the people who got asked to leave. also a separate worry — even at the kink-friendly venue, the mattresses and surfaces aren't ours. is wax on a club bed a thing people do or do you only do wax play at home / private rentals. so... do any of you have experience with wax in actual swinger clubs in the UK/ireland/AUS. is it generally a no, generally a yes-with-permission, or strictly relegated to your own home and private kink venues. and how do you ask without making it weird