kasidie as a single guy and the 100 to 1 ratio is brutal

so i finally bit the bullet and paid for kasidie, profile is decent, verified photos, written bio that doesn't scream creep... and i've sent maybe 80 messages in two weeks and gotten 2 actual conversations back. one ghosted after three replies and the other turned out to be a unicorn hunter who wanted me to pay her travel. is this just the tax for being a single bloke in this scene or am i doing something wrong... do you lot in manchester/leeds actually message back ever or do you just filter us all out by default... starting to think i should just give up and go back to vanilla dating tbh, the rejection rate is doing my head in

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