LGBT allyship in words vs actual queer-friendly behaviour... how do u clock the gap something ive been noticing... loads of couples have "lgbt friendly" or rainbow flags in their bio but the second a bi guy shows interest in the husband, or a trans person enters the room, or a same sex couple wants to interact, u see the truth. how do u personally clock the gap between performance allyship and the real thing in the lifestyle. any tells. any questions u ask in dms now to filter early bc bios are useless...