long-distance couple uk/australia, when we meet up which country do we play in

bit of a logistics question. me and my partner are in an LDR, hes in melbourne im in manchester. we got into the LS together when we lived in the same city 3 yrs ago, then he got the job offer down under and we decided to keep going long distance. we see each other every 3-4 months. heres the thing... weve only ever played together in his city now cos thats where the friends/connections we trust are. but i wanna start having ppl come visit ME in manchester too. how do u guys handle LS when one side has the established network and the other doesnt... feels lopsided