long distance match interested in coming to ours for the scene... thoughts?

matched on feeld with a single woman who lives like 4 hours away. she's travelled before for events, knows our city has a decent lifestyle scene, and has basically suggested visiting for a weekend specifically to attend a club with us. great chat, nothing weird, seems genuinely experienced. but... we've never hosted someone we've only met online. travel costs, accommodation, the pressure of a weekend rather than a dinner... how do u dip a toe into long distance matches without it being all-or-nothing? do meetup somewhere neutral first or just go for it...