menopause + new partner energy is a real thing... anyone else experienced this

so im 54, fully thru meno now, hrt sorted. been w hubby 29 yrs, sex w him is... fine. comfortable. familiar. last month at a club in glasgow we met another couple and the husband and i clicked HARD. weve seen each other twice more (couples dates, all above board, hubby fully consent). and the energy w this new guy is like nothing ive felt since post-meno. is this "new partner energy" people talk abt or has my body just woken up at the right moment... im a bit terrified honestly bcs i love my husband and i dont want to confuse a hormone surge w a feeling