MFM and FMF threesomes are technically neither soft nor full — how do u even describe them

this just popped into my head. when ppl ask "are u soft or full?" and our answer is mostly "we do MFM and FMF triads" the whole soft/full framing kinda falls apart. cause its not swapping at all, its sharing one of us with a third. is there a better vocab for this? when we list it on profiles we say "open to triads MFM/FMF" but i feel like ppl in soft-only world hear "full" and ppl in full world ask why we dont do quads. yall who play triads how do u describe ur style without getting put in the wrong box