mixed-race couple at the club bar... the "exotic" comments need to stop were a couple, im mixed race (caribbean/white british), my partner is white british, we re ldn based. we go to a fairly well known club a few times a yr. and i swear every visit i get at least one comment from a stranger at the bar about being "exotic" or "interesting looking" or asking "where u from from". in the year 2026. in a swingers club. honestly. its tiring. my partner usually clocks it n we move on but i ve started wanting to say something. is there a polite-but-firm script for this. or do u just disengage every time...